I thought a lot. I examined, inspected, and reflected so much, that I'm pretty sure I smelled smoke from all that hard introspection. One thing that I realized is that I talk an awful lot about myself. This blog is different, of course - it's for me to share my thoughts and adventures, in order to help others, or at the very least, make people laugh. My conversations in public are a much different story; I seem to find ways to relate every story back to me, and often use sarcasm for cover when I'm feeling nervous or challenged.
You know that old break-up line, "It's not you, it's me," right? I'm sure none of you have actually heard the line personally, or said it, but I bet you're all familiar with the premise. Well, for the rest of this entry, it's not ME, it's YOU.
It's You - Edition One:
Amy (little sis) is a powerful force of change in this world. She truly cares about people and speaks out when she feels others are being undervalued. She texts her niece and nephew to check in, and has appointed herself their very own college advisor. She loves people fiercely; in fact, she does everything fiercely, from loving, arguing, and teaching, to playing games and making ice cream. She is a bright, fierce light.
Becky (wife & BFF) is a beacon in the night. There has never been a person more steady and more steadfast than this wonder of a woman. Any time spent with Becky promises to be full of belly laughs, raunchy statements, and joyous revelations. Plus, she can do EVERYTHING and ANYTHING she puts her mind to. Seriously, she is a marvel. Becky can bring home the vegan bacon, and fry it up in a pan.
Skyler (good buddy), whether he likes it or not, is a go-to guy. He is dependable, creative, hard-working, and constructive. Skyler is the greatest girl, dog, and cat dad there ever was, and fearlessly defends the people he loves. He is entertaining; he performs daring feats, and loses stuff all the time (like his bright orange hard hat). Hilarious!
Dan (cycling marvel) is such a wonderful person. He is caring, thoughtful, and the best damn cheerleader anyone would ever want. Dan is one of those rare individuals that actually WANTS his friends to succeed, and will do anything he can to help that happen. He is the master at "dropping a line" to say hi, check in, or just tell a joke.
This is just the tip of my "It's not ME, it's YOU" iceberg. Don't worry or feel left out - you will most likely receive the spotlight in an upcoming post. I am so thankful that I'm surrounded by some of the greatest folks in the world, who all deserve the very highest accolades. I worship at your altar, all of you. Whether I show it or not, it is about YOU.
